Right at 60 days and in come the intrusive thoughts of my recent breakup (4 months ago) being on the guilt and shame I guess. Anybody else deal with obsessive thoughts when first getting sober? Any advice is appreciated. But hey, at least I can say I didn’t drink again for today
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Sometimes that has to be enough. Life gets better one day at a time, but it takes time and in my experience, the twelve steps, to heal and move forward with a much better way of living. Everything improves. Out health, our mental well-being, our outlook, our relationships, financial stability, and the list goes on. Congratulations on 60 days. Keep it up!
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Thanks Maggie. I know they say live in today. Not yesterday. Not tomorrow. But sometimes it’s hard to not look back and miss what ya had and ruined and feel the guilt slap ya right in the face lol. I don’t even have the urge to drink but at times get in my own way with too much thinking. Thanks again for the encouragement 
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Todd, I have all kinds of regrets about how I handled relationships, especially those closest to me. I just try to learn from the past, and try my best to stay on the straight and narrow, so I don't repeat history.