Having a hard time my wife for her addiction and i was still in mine now that im sober i have to admit it feels pointless without her
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It feels this way, BUT it’s not true. Feelings are the way we are perceiving things. However, our thoughts and perceptions can change by working a program of recovery. You may not see it now, but you need to have faith that you will one day. The best way is to go to some A.A. meetings and listen to others that have had similar feelings, but are now living a purposeful life
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That sounds so hard. Losing someone while also fighting your own addiction is a lot for one person to carry. Your sobriety still matters, even when it feels pointless right now. I’m here if you want to talk.
I was a user before I met my husband ten yrs ago. Two yrs ago I left him . We both have been sober a yr together it been rough but we are making it. But I've been where you are.. it's worth the sobriety trust me
Don't give up.. jail is what saved us both