Having a hard time with sobriety! I keep finding myself

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Having a hard time with sobriety! I keep finding myself in some type of situation. It's to the point where I find it hard to be around anyone. Something seems to set me off and start back over. I have come to realize I am my own worst enemy and don't know how to get around me. Could use some suggestions other than meetings

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#2

Chase I’m sorry u r having a difficult time. What has helped u in the past on ur successful days

#3

SoberBuddy is another app that has helped me tremendously!!

#4

I'll try it out. I really need some new people in my life and I am having a hard time meeting people who can relate. I have friends and family who care but aren't actually there for me. I know I have been getting a lot of help from the big man upstairs but it gets lonely a lot and walking the dog three or more times a day is wearing us both out. Lol, and I mean long walks too!

#6

Yes, my life has literally been a shitshow for the past 6 months I fell off a roof back in June fractured three ribs and a vertebrae found out I had a brain tumor had that removed at the end of October and all the people that I have been there for throughout all these years didn't show up for me in my time of need and it seems like I am using that as a crutch right now (preaching to myself now) I'm kind of stuck because all the people that I have gone above and beyond to help out and even put myself in s***** situations to help them out they are not here and that's the wall I'm hitting right now.

#7

Is that a joke?

#8

Ahhhh, you complained about being alone and not meeting sober people. Sorry, just realized you said you didn’t want to do meetings. Missed that part. My bad. Well, good luck finding a different way. Only meetings work for me is all. Fellowshipping with other sober people is my go too.

#9

Sorry about that. Removed it. Had a brain fart.

#11

It's all good brother, it was a honest question. lol! God bless you brother!

#12

I know. I just didn’t read it thoroughly is all. I read a lot of posts. Miss stuff now and then.

#13

Change your friends.stay a way from drinkers.stay busy.get out of your house.go to aa meetings or celebrate recovery is in churches there way.we need to work it.for it to work. Aa :dromedary_camel: