Having a really hard time with mother's day coming and i have ruined my relationships with my children.
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I felt the same until my child reached out. Keep doing right and be consistent, consistently show them the new you and consistency will win the day in the end!
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You are not alone. I did the same and still suffering 
. I decided this past week that their support will not bend my will. I am going to live my best life and celebrate me.
Yes, I am ignored by every message and every gift sent. No thabk you, but no f^*k off either. Not blocked. Just ignored. I sent birthday gift, I sent NEW mama gifts and baby gifts, as well as a Mother's Day gift. You know why? For me. I sent these because it is what I needed to do for me. My daily efforts go unrecognized by them. But I don't need their approval for my actions.
Do I hope one day they will stop this nonsense? Absolutely 
, I do. However, today I am sober and strong and full of gratitude FOR Them. I LOVE THEM, I am doing what I need to stay sober. That means reaching out when I feel like it or when Infeel loke they need it.
YOU are not alone.
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Thank you for the lovely message, it definitely makes me feel a bit better knowing I'm not the only one. I am fortunate enough that one of my daughters tolerate me.
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