Heading to Scottsdale for a conference. Anxious since I know there will be a lot of drinking and other stuff going on there. I will be surrounded by others from Wall Street like myself and unfortunately there is a lot of drinking and partying that happens at these events. I used to thrive at these in the past but this time I am determined to stay sober and attend a few virtual meetings while here. I also don’t want to be a social recluse and stay in my suite the entire time. I wish I had sober friends in Scottsdale.
Hey just weigh the benefit of schmoozing against the risk to your sobriety. I had a relapse where I survived the event, but it started things in motion in my mind. I would just say, if you start to feel just a shade of discomfort, get the f out. You are early in bro. Be safe. Have fun though. Play some golf.
You are so right. Yes. I intentionally scheduled a call with my Therapist while I am at the conference for added accountability. I guess there is No shame in heading back to the room if I feel out of place sober. I have much more at stake.
Hi Shay, we have tons of live meetings in the Scottsdale area and awesome clubs too. Here is the address of one of my favorite fellowship clubs;
Valley Al-Anon
2310 N 56th St
Bldg A
Phoenix, AZ 85008
Right next to Scottsdale boundary.)
Need a ride club #602-517-3590
a couple members will be happy to pick you up or take an Uber or Lyft.
Meetings run from morning to night. Someone is always there, usually have a fire pit going in the courtyard with visitors and members coming and going with plenty of coffee, snacks & conversation if you want to share.
Another is the
North Scottsdale Fellowship
10427 N Scottsdale Rd
Scottsdale, AZ 85253
Not Valley Al-Anon.
Valley Alano (spell correct sorry).
Valley Alano
2310 N 56th Str
Bldg A
Phoenix AZ 85008
602-517-3590
Thank you @lizz131321 ! I will definitely check this out. Will be cool to head leave the property. We’re staying at the Fairmont Princess … I guess it shdnt be too far.
Stay strong! Just avoid the situations that may cause temptation and remember what’s most important! Enjoy the beautiful scenery and weather!

Thanks!