Hello! Am I not doing this right? I am here to create my community of people on this journey. I feel like I’ve made at least some weak attempts but now I am here asking for help! I do not want to drink and I don’t have any sober friends. I know that I have to connect
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Most people in my life were based around drinking, now I also have no one. But we’re living 

Get to a meeting. In person, zoom, AA, anything. We have all tried to white knuckle it and do it on our own. The help is there. Just need to reach a hand up and sit at the tables.
Great job on admitting help. If you continue to reach out/engage with others on Loosid you'll have a community of people ready to help.
If you don't want to drink, you don't have to. You have made a great choice.