Hello Everyone! New on here and almost 7 years

Hello Everyone! New on here and almost 7 years sober. I know we have all hurt people we love and sometimes it takes time, sometimes never to connect again make amends with the people we hurt.
I have not dated much due to crushing someone’s heart during my mess. But I was lucky enough to finally have a face to face conversation with that person for the first time since I entered rehab in 2016. He lives in different state but was traveling with a friend to a handful Dead n Co Shows. He knew I would be at one of the shows and said he wanted to see me. We had not talked for 7 years! We got a chance to chit chat for about an hour prior to a show and it was great to see how happy he is and vice versa(he was happy to see that i was doing so good/happy). A conversation that was long overdue but simple and gave peace to us both.
Emotionally the next day was pretty ruff but it was pos/neg emotions that I finally got to truly let go.

Peace …. and so thankful for my sobriety everyday!

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Thank you for the share. I’m not at the point to make amends but def have a couple of exes that I hope are doing well and hope I will have the chance one day to get to say sorry for my side of the street.

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Nice

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This is beautiful. I had a really great Dead and Co experience too. I traveled from Texas to Boston to go to a show, but while I was in that area my sister-in-law (who was terminally ill) took a hard turn for the worse and I got to spend a week with her and my brother before she passed. I’m beyond grateful for that week even though I missed the show.

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You will find your soulmate trust God

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True

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I’m so sorry for you and your family’s loss. But a huge blessing to have been able to be there.

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