So I was actually hoping to get a little help something I absolutely hate doing too
Long story short my life is a complete DUMPSTER FIRE
I got the legal issues and then some
I SERIOUSLY CANT TAKE LIVING LIFE THIS WAY ANYMORE
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Hi, are you ok?
Wats up
Hello Nicci, and welcome there is alot of good people here. Any questions or comments reach out we want to help. My doc was Alcohol and sober almost a yr this time. Again reach out
Im here 
Sorry my phones been dead and wasn’t near the charger but I was hoping to get help something I absolutely hate admitting I need
What kind of help? If it is a kind word, advice, or suggestions I am sure anyone here will be happy to talk to you.
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Im sick and tired of the dope life
I’m so tired of being strung out there’s no peace happiness ANYTHING but 1 thing and 1 thing only GRIEF and MISERY AND ENDLESS PROBLEMS
Good for you for reaching out. The good thing is there are many people who aren’t only willing to help, but want to help. Sometimes sucks to take it one day at a time as things don’t just change over night. Is there anything I can help you with? Reach out anytime.
I rly do appreciate it just trying to get advice and just talk because me keeping to myself the way I am is slowly eating me alive
I genuinely want to be well like actually well not have a dependency on this mess
just want to actually be and feel happiness in general i look rough as all get out I see where I don’t eat I really hate the way I look right now way to skinny it’s nasty
Sorry to hear you are struggling so badly. If there’s one thing I could pass on to you, it would be hope. There are so many of us who have been in similar situations, and now have some peace in our lives. Getting to the desperation point rly sux, but for us dumb sh!ts, it’s the only way we learn. It’s great that you are reaching out for help! I almost killed myself before I did. Staying sober ain’t easy, but active addiction is complete misery. Glad you’re here! Time to start your recovery journey. Let’s go 
Thank you yes I’m terrified of changing but nothing can be as scary as the way I have been living the past year
We've all done it differently, but for me, I reached out to a rehab program, and they put me in an intensive outpatient program that has been wonderful for me.
It sounds like you might need something more. There are a bunch of rehab centers that popped up when I searched on Google. Reach out. You won't regret it.
If you can't get in touch now, find a meeting...AA, NA, whatever. Just go. They will be able to give you support, and maybe help you find a place that can help.
Hi nicci my name is Derek 1st of all I really don't know everything that's going on with your legal matters but I do say this please don't give up We did a lot of damage in our lives and others but this is the time to show ourselves that we can be better do better live better and love better you owe that to yourself take it one day at a time with me I had to take it 1 minute at a time and I have Serenity and peace you can have it as well we are going to have to fight through some battles But if we keep fightening we'll be OK we just can't give up If you have a support group use them Talk about any and every issue that you are going through in your new life in the meetings rooms You will be surprised how much support and help you can get from that it worked for me I can't see why it would not work for you you are alive today And you did that just like you can do everything else that's positive sky's a limit Go and grab that Serenity and peace I hope this message gave you a little bit motivation And encouragement You are not in this alone don't forget that it's a we program have a bless day and feel free to chat if you need to im here for everybody just like they were there for me
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So a few questions and suggestions.
Have you tried to get so er in the past? If you have don't judge now by then. This is a great time to start. If not you found a good way to begin this journey.
If you have tried getting sober did you have withdrawal symptoms? If you did call your doctor. If you haven't gotten sober before I would talk to a doctor just to make sure your odds of withdrawals getting bad is mitigated.
Have you tried going to a meeting? You should.
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I did get sober I did withdrawal but it wasn’t bad it sucked tho and I had been thinking about it before it really started to hit that I seriously don’t want this mess anymore