My close friend was diagnosed with cancer that is terminal. I have struggled with how to support him. I have went to his treatments and doctor visits consistently, but it seems that he is quitting the fight. Any recommendations on how I can spur him on without overstepping? I 100% know that it is all his decision & I want to be empathetic. He lashes out at times. I have grace because of his diagnosis but I also dont want to be a doormat. Thoughts?
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I'm not sure about the overstepping part I would be very grateful my friend was there no matter the challenges I no the heart breaks and pain I no the struggle and overcoming quitting and letting go of my hopes and faith as a stage 4 survivor I battled all by having God on my side no family or friends just my Lord the doctors and nurses I am getting emotional 
all I can say stay no matter what stand by him never give up hope be strong for him pray with him as well it's a struggle and it hurts to be in that condition but with your love and support 
God truly sees your heart 
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Thank you Crystal for sharing your experience. Great advice!
He might possibly think he's burdening you. Let him know it's your choice to be his cheerleader and that there's nothing you'd rather be doing.