What advice or steps do folks have on discovering their own higher power?
You could find folks whom you look up to and discuss their higher power. Perhaps also start by thinking about the qualities your higher power would possess.
Seek and you will find, my brother!
Sounds almost like a nonanswer, but it is THE answer. Be teachable, be humble, and seek a path of steady spiritual growth. Pray often.
More will be revealed. The answers will come.
Hi Evan, I was raised catholic. After I got sober the first time, I was highly involved in a non-denominational church. 2 very different views of God. Life happened, things did not go as planned and I got angry at God. Now I have reflected on live and personal views and my vision of my Higher has changed. In my experience it is a prospective that will evolve, a lot like any other relationship. The chapter We Agnostics in the big book helped. Stay strong.
A Higher Power doesn't have to be what any one religion, creed or ethos states it is - it just has to be anything at all which is bigger than me. Something outside of myself. Clearly, as I accepted, I was unable to do anything about my drinking myself. It was suggested I needed to put my faith in something greater than me!
Read the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous. Lots of information about a HP in there.
The 12 steps of Alcoholics Anonymous entire purpose is to help you find a HP. The 12th step starts “Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps…”
Do the steps, find a HP. That’s how it worked for me and millions of others.
A higher power is a power greater than myself. In my early sobriety my understanding was just that. The community of AA. I used this power to get clean and stay clean. As I evolved so did my understanding of MY higher power.
I hope this helps🙏
What are your core beliefs on the subject? I only ask because if you do not have a belief in a "god", don't force it. You don't have to believe in god to stay sober.
Someone mentioned "We Agnostics" in the big book, and if you are truly agnostic or even atheist as I am, you will find this chapter to be condescending and largely rubbish. Basically it tells you that you will eventually come to the belief in God if you work at it.
I just look at a higher power as other people's experiences, as well as myself on my best day. No magic, or nonsense, asking someone else to remove the things about myself that I don't like.
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