How do i tell a friend who paid alot for

[sherita356501 (Sherita Brasher)]

How do i tell a friend who paid alot for tickets to a weekend concert with a hotel room that i dont feel to go. I feel like it would jeopardize my soberity . I have been sober for almost 3 years?

[gregory166142 (Gregory G.)]

Be frank.

[joshua322670 (Joshua)]

I would just be honest. There is a place where going to concerts won't jeopardize your sobriety, but if you're not there yet I would just tell your friend.

[scott354592 (scott harelson)]

I agree, making boundaries is part of recovery.

[jordan263489 (Jordan K)]

You do exactly what you did here and just tell the truth. If she's a real friend then she'll understand and wouldn't want that for you. But regardless your recovery has to come first.