How do you fill the time at night that you’d typically fill with drinking? “The Bored” drinking….
Snack, tv, messaging friends. Never too late to pick up a new hobby! Guitar is fun and so many arts and crafts to explore. Best wishes!
I play guitar actually it’s just stuck in my storage unit on an island 30 miles away from me…
Gym…. Staying physically active. The boredom will pass. Eventually drinking will kill you. Choose life over death with a side of boredom. I was the king of boredom drinking.
I went to the gym today first time in 3 years… there is a liquor store right next door too… resilience is strong in this one
Booze it literally everywhere!! Will power my man!
Oh very cool you're into guitar already. Good thing to keep your hands and mind busy. Hhhmmmm maybe you can order a cheap used guitar somewhere? I hope you can get yours out soon!
I can get it whenever I want! Just been super focused on my sobriety and going back to Nantucket to get it will be another challenge I need to face
Aahhhhh ok gotchya. I hear you! That's great you are anticipating problems and prioritizing your sobriety.
I know this feeling and have nothing wise to say
I'm new but what works for me is small hobbies
Coloring in adult coloring books is nice. I mostly listen to boring history it’s quite comical and a teachable moment. In my first early days of sobriety like the first week I started fine when I called substitute drinks. I learned that when I would have a craving which I don’t have anymore, but when I have have a craving, I would buy different kinds of tea and Coke zero or some kind of diet carbonation drink that’s really what I would buy when I knew that I would have a urge like after not just a urge craving like after my meetings. I will stop at the gas station before I go home and get my Coke, my Diet Coke and like some skittles, but now I gravitate more chores, electrolyte drinks, and juice just dilute it with water every now and then I’ll get up a carbonated drink, but I really like lemonade and like the mixed lemonade drinks.
I dig into learning as much as I could about myself.
Learn, read,study. Hit meetings. The gym and watch movies etc.