How do you leave someone you love? Im sober shes not. And she blames me for her hitting the needle again all because i told her that she has a problem. I cant be with her if shes not willing to attempt to get sober but i cant leave her amd something happen to her. Idk wat to do
You can force someone to change. They have to want it themselves. All you can do is either leave or be there for them. You can try having a conversation with them and tell them how you feel and see where it leads.
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I have and it leads to fights. We've been together 5 years. I just need to leave and not look back. But I just cant. I love her
Sometimes love hurts when it shouldn’t., we have to choose,,
starting with prayer for me is key when I have something or someone on my heart., some say it’s silly., but for me it works,,, it lets me let go of the outcome….
Hope this helps… I’ll be praying for you both…..
Adam it's not love. How do you leave. It's real simple.... Just walk away. You deserve way better.
Don't be codependent. If she does something stupid it's on her not you.
Adam.... Run and run fast. Don't look back.
You have to protect your sobriety. She is not looking out for. Stay strong.
You have to focus on you. You can't make her do what she needs to do. She has to help herself. Focus on your sobriety. Always remember any and everything and any and everybody you put before your sobriety you will fail. Good luck