How many relapses are normal
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Have you asked your sponsor this question?
This is like a loaded question.
My answer is only an opinion. It is a lengthy two sided opinion
- no relapses are normal
- all relapses are normal.
It really depends on if someone is actively trying to stay sober. By actively trying I mean: get honest with others of how bad your condition is, attending meetings, doing the steps, working with others.
When I finally surrendered and took suggestions I had zero relapses but for some 1-3 relapses was part of their story. We are all different. To beat the addictions I must be honest and participate in recovery as if my life depends on it.
All relapses are normal if you’re not following suggestions. It’s a new way of living that reduces the chances of relapse.
That’s like asking what’s a normal hitting bottom. Everyone is different. I would say when you get sick and tired of being sick and tired.
Normal is relative.
None
And hate everyone I have had.
Meetings and getting numbers helps me! 
It's not a relapse if you haven't gotten it in the first place. It's just a continuation of unhealthy behavior. And relapse is not a requirement.
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