Does anybody have any methods at all? I am struggling on how to befriend without feeling pushy/awkward even IF it’s a meeting
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Sober pot luck meals. Good food, good people, good conversations.
Start one and invite people to it. Can be at a park or public place.
Can be on a theme like countries you and others are from.
Inviting others makes things easier in you sometimes.
There is also a silent book club in almost every city.
Sol dancing is fun and meditation or yoga classes allow you to be around people too.
I just cut off everybody that I thought was not good for me., which turned out to be near everybody. It is a hard thing to do. Leads to being lonely most of the time but over time you will find new ways of friending the right people. In God's time is a new form of time I never knew, lol, but it is real and usually doesn't happen as quickly as we would like it to. Just fade away until they are gone and don't wonder what happened to them. You probably don't want to know