I am greatful to be sober i just want to change my thoughts of all the wrong ive done and the people i have hurt
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Forgive yourself. That’s so important in recovery! You were sick, but you’re healing - recovering. It’s hard to vanquish those memories. When they come up for me, I say a little prayer to my Higher Power - asking Him to forgive me, bc I was so sick in my disease. And I ask Him to vanquish the memory - and ‘poof’, it goes away like smoke from a candle.
The people you hurt? After several months of you being clean & sober, they’ll see the footwork. It will take time. Time. And some may never forgive. But that’s on them. Forgive yourself and do the next right thing. That’s all you can do! Prayers to you!
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Today is all we have
BE a LONG TERM THINKER. It's going to be a PROCESS TO CLEAR YOUR MIND FROM THE PEOPLE YOU HAVE HURT. STAY THE COURSE. YOU CAN DO THIS..
Yes, I agree.Forgive yourself filton, shame have done.We know favors personally
Sometimes I feel as though I’m paying a price for all the mistakes and decisions I’ve made that hurt others. And nobody can be harder on me than myself. I have to remind myself that I was very sick. Mentally, emotionally and spiritually. And despite it all I have been given an opportunity to do better today. To make amends. Not with any words but through how I live my life and by example. I can’t change the hearts of those I’ve hurt but God can. And doing the right thing today helps that happen!!!!
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