It seems like a pretty good app overall, but someone did just add me and then asked for money... so just be aware there are occasional issues but that’s life, too, right? 
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Oops sorry didn’t realize it looks like other ppl ran into the same dude now that I’ve looked at all the comments... nvm about previous comment >_<;
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Yes I reached out last night for encouragement & then spent 3 hours on the phone with a woman encouraging her while she used & never said anything about myself at all & then when I had to take care of my daughter she told me off lol oh well!
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I had to block her lol but I will certainly keep her in my prayers
Stay strong. Think out what happens when you drink in steps mentally. Its never worth it.
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You have friends here
I would join a support group maybe so you can talk about your feelings a little more. Cognitive therapy is great. Most of us hate to reach out for help but it’ll help!
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That's a nightmare to imagine... nothing will ever be worth that..it's only by the Grace of God
That's such great advice... thank you 
Hi Kristie, I’m so sorry to hear about the horrible trauma and loss you’ve been through. I’ve seen and lost too much as well and always used the bottle to cope. I’ve learned you’ve got to sit with the pain. When it is right for you, sit with it and let it hurt and think about it, it’s the only way to heal. Good luck, 4 years is a huge accomplishment that I hope to have one day.
You are so very right...I absolutely agree with you I honestly don't wanna shove it down anymore with booze...it hurts like hell but I do want to feel it. I have the Honor of having been Tristan's Mama & because of the short time God gave me with him my heart hurts terribly ugh so much so. But I wouldn't trade that time for this pain. I just gotta get through it sober & thanks so much to the beautiful people who have reached out to me I'm still very much sober & I've been very much not alone thanks to you all
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Also my spiritual music.. Ive been listening to Carrie underwood sing "because He lives" for hours singing my heart out
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& crying the whole time but it's getting me through... thankful for my faith 
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It may not feel like it sometimes, but it is so much easier sober than drunk. I cannot imagine the pain you feel having lost your son, but you appear to be a very strong lady, and you can make it through this, sober. May your loved ones look over you and protect you in these times of desire. That drink is uglier than we remember..stay strong. 
music is my best coping mechanism, and it helps the feelings come out when it’s time.
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I'm in total agony honey...I'm rolled up in a ball on my bedroom floor & I've been like this for hours. I'm all alone but God is with me
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I'm in total agony honey...I'm rolled up in a ball on my bedroom floor & I've been like this for hours. I'm all alone but God is with me...I do know that I'm working through it
Music is like medication to me. & I write poetry alot. I just sent one person on here today one that I wrote & framed for my daughter's to help heal their hearts 
Let the tears roll, darling...
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Haley I feel so touched today that even these tears are drying up....you all are such precious people
Its a huge struggle for me to ask for help....like its dibilitating but wow Im so glad I did it today <3