I am struggling so hard now. Its my ex girlfriends

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#1

I am struggling so hard now. Its my ex girlfriends birthday today.. we lived together for 10 years… she recently moved out a week ago.. the regrets are kicking in hard.

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#2

Same boat my friend just broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago , I just don't think it's worth stopping my sobriety for him . It won't bring any positive out of it . The way I cop with it it's a day a time ... loving myself more . That's just how I'm dealing with it , but I understand you completely . Stay strong . You got this life will bring many more challenges .. don't give in . :muscle:t4:

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#3

Steven, I feel you bro! It’s not easy to manage regrets. However, I’ve learned that with time my regrets have helped me change into a much better version of myself. And my life has changed in much better ways.
Please know that everything will work out. Stay clean, stay positive and healthy.
I’m here if you want to talk

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#4

Thanks for sharing, and I'm sorry you're going through this man.

#5

Been there dude, if you can, find a meeting, and stay busy. Go for a walk, listen to a podcast. The thing is to stay busy until you are able to safely process. It’s okay to grieve, but you also gotta keep moving forward. You got this.

#6

Phone A friend

#7

She sucks. Good riddance. Move forward

#8

I understand how you feel. I had a really hard break up a couple years ago right when I got 18 months and I became ungrateful and depressed and pushed everyone away. I didn’t listen to any suggestions and thought about if I did this or if I could had done that and isolated myself and I relapsed. It was a hard lesson to learn. Feeling feelings sucks at times though it’s not going to make it hurt less if I use if anything it makes it worse. So please don’t use over it. All things in life are temporary so weather the storm and when you make it on the other side you can reach back and show someone else who’s struggling and show them you made it through this clean. I didn’t make it through my last major heartbreak clean though I can be a lesson on what not to do and help others not make that same mistake. I’m here if you ever need someone to talk with