I am sure that my 26 yr old son has a problem with his drinking. He hurt himself fighting his brother and got a DUI. This is not the first incident and I'm deeply concerned 
I know there is nothing I can really do besides praying for him. I tried telling him that I think he needs some help... maybe go to treatment? But he got defensive immediately, but I hope he thinks about it...
I am 34 days clean and sober and this weighs heavily on my mind 


im so sorry, that must be incredibly painful to watch
from what Iโve been learning, we canโt really push someone into recovery, they usually have to want it for themselves. but your love and concern absolutely matter, and just knowing someone is there can make a difference when theyโre ready.
The biggest thing you can do for someone in active addiction is to continue to show them love and concern with a big ol heart full of forgiveness. You just have to pray that they get it sooner rather than later. Hang in there, Mom. 