I am three months sober now and it’s really hard not to relapse
Are you plugged into something greater than you? A program? Prayer? A sober community? Doing recovery by yourself is almost always a drain on the soul. Being free is a good step. Just don’t use no matter what and eventually you’ll find your groove.
I’m here for you!!
Find your sober groove.fast
Great advice. I'll add: 1 day or moment at a time.
Why are you struggling?
Go to a meeting, call your sponsor, don't drink or use. If that doesn't work: don't drink or use, call your sponsor, go to a meeting. If THAT doesn't work: call your sponsor, go to a meeting......see where I'm going with this?
In the meantime, a suggestion: look up and listen to - 'Mooji, An Invitation To Awakening'.
Three months sober is fantastic! What are some things that have helped you so far?