I cannot go back to my household with my wife

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#1

I cannot go back to my household with my wife. I can't be co dependent with someone in active addiction. Im giving up on any hopes of reconciliation. Ive chosen to love myself and accept my defects. I am authentic and refuse to tolerant judgment from my broken soulmate.

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#2

Hi Patrick. That is a huge step to take. I am happy to hear you’re loving yourself and doing what is best for you and your journey. I am so sorry to hear your wife is in active addiction. I hope she is able to find her peace and the support she needs. Choosing to walk away from someone you love is extremely difficult, especially when they are hurting. If you need anything please reach out.

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#3

Patrick, smart move! Stay very close to the sober community and work on you and your sobriety.
If you do that everything has a way of really working out.
I’m here if you want to talk

#4

Thanks Sierra for those words of encouragement. I never was able to talk about my problems, I just avoided reality with substances. Sobriety has helped me understand my pain and why addiction has caused so much chaos and destruction in my life. Finding like minded people that have suffered helps us all heal.

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#5

Thanx brother, finding my self worth has helped me realize that I'm not alone and I'm not scared to ask for help from genuine people that care.

#6

Of course. I’m so glad you’re here to share with us and let us in! Talking about your problems can be daunting but I promise if you want to share, I’m here to listen :heart:

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