I don’t know how to deal with or overcome the

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#1

I don’t know how to deal with or overcome the assumption of family that I have been drinking and it always turns into a fight and a feeling of going backwards and then guilt that I made it this way. Today has started off awful

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#2

You have to understand, you may not have been drinking...you may still be displaying some addictive behaviors that may not have been addressed yet....then some members of your family will always judge you on your past. Instead of arguing or defending yourself just accept the fact that some bridges are burnt due to my behaviors then let it go. Arguing is a waste of emotional energy that you could be using towards your recovery.

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#3

Hi Kevin -it takes time for them depending on their perception of how much you have hurt them, lied about drinking, etc. - you do not need to defend yourself - you and God know the truth - you can’t change them, only you - so don’t engage, stay sober, and set the example - they will come around

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#4

Yea but it’s hard waking up everyday knowing that I’m a pos. Thanks for the advice. I guess I’ll just keep my head down and use work as an escape. At least it won’t kill me as fast. Feeling pretty defeated today.

#5

I've actually had to step away from my family.

#6

Today has sucked.