What do i do now? Now im sober, working, doing the right thing… what now im so freaking lost
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Now you just place one foot. Front of the other and keep walking forward honestly it’s that simple but not so easy and don’t look back just “keep swimming”
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It takes time to learn new patterns. I wish I could tell you that one day yhe heavens opened and I was happy. It wasnt that dramatic.
I still struggle with a social life that does not include alcohol, but I am doing it.
So can you!
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I'm in the same boat new here. Hoping to meet others to get and give help!
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Amanda, welcome! That “what now?” feeling is totally normal. You did the hard part, got sober, working, started doing the right thing. Now you’re like… okay, but what’s the point?
Here’s what helps.. getting involved here. Check out the Community feed, read, comments, connect with people’s stories
Our SAM feature, it’s like a sober AI assistant for when you need quick support, direct messages, reach out to people whose posts resonate
The app works best when you stay connected. Post when you’re struggling. Comment on others’ stuff. Build connections. That’s how you go from “now what?” to building a life you don’t want to escape from.
Hope this helps. You got this!
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Welcome! Stay connected, meet new sober friends, post when struggling, have questions and interact. You got this!
Listen to your thoughts without judgement and correct them. You can pull you out of this! Tell story I am Healed whole and complete.
I understand thinking you are lost but it is an illusion.
God/universe doesn’t want us to suffer. We came here so perfect and just forgot and got lost in all the patterns and limiting beliefs.
See yourself already as who you want to be and know that your life is amazing no matter what you see or feel right now.
If you say you are lost you surely will stay there.
Our outer world is created by our inner world.
Find a sponsor who has worked the steps, find a sober network and get a service position
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Same thing here
Get connected to a recovery group; AA, NA, CA, etc., get a sponsor and do the steps. That's why the steps exist, to guide us.