I don't need people telling me how to stay sober and how to grieve. I may be struggling to stay sober but I must be doing something right because as bad as I feel,I haven't had a slip up and I know what I need to do to stay sober. No one has any right to tell me how to grieve. This isn't my first death as I've lost my Dad, brother's, grandparents,my Aunt and other people that was close to me. Don't tell me what to do or anything like that. This is my recovery and my time of grieving. I do things my way because it works for me. I'm not gonna do what works for others. I know what I need to do and the fact that I lost my Aunt 3 days ago and found out 2 days ago... it's still fresh. I'm grieving my way and on my time. I just lost my Aunt that was like a mom to me. I don't need advice or suggestions. I need people to let me do my recovery my way and grieve my way
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I'm also doing that grieving/sober reality right now. Sux but I'm sober. I'm proud of you and so sorry for your losses. Peace
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