i ended up copping because i’m a loser and an idiot
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Maybe because you have an addiction
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Loosing a fight doesn't make you a looser, and making mistakes doesn't make you an idiot my friend. We can only ever start from where we are, so let's start here and get better, make things better, and enjoy things better.
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Ur not a looser it happens just stop before it get too late it ok to start over again just DNt GIvE up tht the major thing tht the sun right there ok
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Not trying to be hostile but when I call myself an idiot I consider it the easy way out. Call myself an idiot, feel bad and stop thinking about it because I don't want to feel worse. Prove to yourself you're not an idiot by thinking about why it happened and what you can do to lessen the chance of it happening again.
Realizing what happened, calling yourself out, you can grow from it. Living with addiction and the trauma that comes along doesn't make you an idiot; it makes you wiser than most; you have the experience now to help yourself and maybe others someday. I'm proud of you for posting this. Reach out anytime!
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You are not a loser. You are a winner for trying to get better.
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I don’t think you’re a loser. Actually I think you’re hella cool 
Ugh, I hate the guilt and shameful feelings that come along after a relapse. I wish I would have been kinder to myself back when I couldn’t stay sober for very long. Go easy on yourself and just be happy for the days that you have had sober.
Luna please stop being so hard on yourself. You’re NOT a loser! Though you will continue to believe what you say to yourself. Try a different approach and start small by telling yourself “I like who I am, who I’m choosing to be, and I’m stronger in my sobriety” at least once a day if not whenever you start to feel how you are right now, then once you’ve begun to realize your true worth and see yourself in a whole new light, try changing “like” to “LOVE”.
Idk you from Eve, yet I refuse to believe you’re a loser! You’re here, you’re sharing your thoughts and feelings, and I really hope you’ll start to practice self care. 🫶🫵
Luna, regardless of what you're going through never talk down to yourself. You are better than that. And for someone coment saying that maybe is because you have an addiction. Don't pay attention to that. We are here to support each other not putting anyone down.