Yea I’m bald, I have bad teeth, apparently a horrible personality. Constantly compared to a serial killer online by women.
These are reasons I used to just get obliterated every day.
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Watch how you talk about yourself… that can be off putting to people. I’m here to support you and listen if you need to vent but with negative self talk, there’s no way you can have positive experiences like this.
Instead of being hard on yourself, you need to do things like a daily gratitude list. I would carry a small notebook or something and write down everything great that happened or what you’re thankful for. It can be as small as spotting a beautiful bird. (I love humming birds)… it’s easier said than done also it may seem like something so silly that you don’t want to waste your time doing… but doing this every day for a month can drastically change your life.
Your life starts with the mind.
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And btw there are plenty of attractive bald men. Own it.
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Don’t feed into the negativity. Online dating sites, social media platforms, etc. are something I avoid. This site is nice because we all have something in common.
I’m going to second this Jo
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You’re proof 
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As a fellow bald man I can say w a discerning eye on the subject that you do have a good shape to your head which enables to to pull off the look
You are familiar w the teachings of Carl Jung thus you’re intelligent
You work on yourself. You want to be better. That is more appealing than any faux social media persona that exists solely for “likes”
You’ve put together more than a year of sobriety
I’d think if you continue your program a day at a time you may find that your first year to be the most challenging
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This was truly a rough day. Thanks all. I am sorry I’m such a drama queen. Need to get my clavicle fracture completely healed up and hit the weights hard again. Soon.
At least I was able to ride my bike tonight.
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(sunglasses are a vital accessory to us bald folk)
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Don’t apologize. You opened up. You cannot heal without vulnerability. Vulnerability is beautiful. It allows real help and gives you answers.
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Please don’t be negative with yourself. The key is to find the five things you like about yourself … not your flaws. I am sure you are a fabulous person and life has made you believe these bad things. You can do this. Stay out of the drama! That’s my best advice 