I have a friend that I really care about . We used drugs together but now I have been clean for 5 months but he still is using. Some days he wants to be sober but some he don’t., he have told me to hold him accountable but when I do he gets mad about it or just ignores me. I don’t know what to do .
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The most important thing to keep in mind is your sobriety and program.holding some one accountable only works if they take accountability. set limits and boundaries with this person and hold yourself accountable to protect and enforce them.
Sometimes the best way to help someone is by the example we set. which you are doing by staying sober.the next part is not allowing the behaviors and actions of others influence your program negatively. that is where limits and boundaries really help.
Thank you James