I have not made it past 30 days yet and

I have not made it past 30 days yet and today after seeing the lady that I have been with for the past 3 months is at the bar with another dude. And I know that I should control my emotions better but man that really hurts.

It just means you care. I'm never happy when I'm in your situation either. Part of being a guy I guess I try to keep my mind occupied because if I dwell on it I go crazy. My first move is to get a workout in

Maybe their just friends? Is she an alcoholic? Maybe the other guy is a drinking buddy?