I have not so far called the man and am reading lit and planning to take action regardless of my not feeling like it. I am shunned and ostracized by my fellow prior peers who cannot get over my desire to quit contributing to their addiction and that I am the predator now. Well, you asked or it. I feel like putting a spotlight on this. Not for aggression, for preservation. I am in the " I've got your motive" cycle and want to destroy their lives with peace and tranquility, not lust. Does anybody get this and help me not to go ballistic and stay productive.