I have to start pee twst weekly as my ex

I have to start pee twst weekly as my ex of 13 years dosent trust im clean we have been split for a month she has both my kids going through custody we both were addicted but been clean off hard drugs for over a month and kick 30 mg of methadone on oct 19th feeling so much better but dont have alot of support my kids are my life and future shes still on methadone