I havew a job interview tomorrow. If I don't get the job. I will most likely be leaving California. It is too expensive here. I saw an adverztisement on Facebook for Lucid Dating. The people on the ad were only talking about s#x in sobriety. We all know s#x sells. Being sober and not participating in the night life hook up scene. Gives me the opportunity. To actually get to know. And value a woman. Rather than resorting to my cave man instincts. I feel ss#x is no longer the only motivation. For finding a partner. The ad was definitely in poor taste. I have recently started communicating again with an ex from. 7 years ago. She is going through a ruff time. It feels good to actually be supportive. If feels good to have cI3 ompassion for another human. I do not have any animosity towards her. And, I also don't have any expectations. I'm content. And that's an awesome feeling. It gives me value.
I hear you on CA being extra expensive… I’ll be exiting in the next 4 years 
Were are you thinking about moving too.
Good question… I’m older now so somewhere that’s not so bustling … New Mexico, Montana etc…. Maybe even out of the country…. Anywhere where you can live a quiet simple life without the heavy grind….. maybe it’s wishful thinking 
No I hear you. I'm San Diego born and Raised. And I live in L.A.now. I have lived in upstate NY. Were their was no. Cities only small rural towns. I really liked it. I am now planning on moving to New Hampshire. The New England states are beautiful. And the jobs pay well. The only big city is Boston. And , Boston only has 500,000 people. The downside are the winters. They can be long and cold.
I was thinking Maine myself …. I’ve been to Bean Town and it’s expensive and bustling …. I’m originally from Chicago so the winters I’m use to although it’s been over a decade of CA weather for me 