I jus spoke with my sponsor o have 27 mths!!!! She said if i dont do the 4th step or ill drink! I feel it should be up to me. Everybody is different, ya know?
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Got to commit to the 3rd
Stepwork is important.
You’ll do it when you’re ready - you will not drink but you might want to start out with one topic or experience and see how it goes - too stressful - wait awhile longer
You picked a sponsor. Why?
A Sponsor is a person who has done the steps and as a result has gained freedom from alcohol and has learned how to live in that freedom. So you came to AA looking for a solution. You sponsor is not the solution your boyfriend is not the solution alcohol is not the solution a job is not the solution people on this app are not the solution... Then what's the solution?
The solution is found in the steps. Humble your self and get cracken on the steps we don't get to do some of them and find the solution. We get to do all of them and get a new life and then carry the message to others...as we see them find freedom we find we become guides into the solution for them...finding ourselves living in the solution
I totally understand I'm having the same problem feel like I done a lot of stuff that is unforgivable going to keep trying to work on it and find a sponsor too much sober today hard to stop drinking when everybody around you is coming back drunk staying homeless shelter so that doesn't help but it's better than the streets happy 4th of July everyone