I just got this app, and I’d like to just say…I’m trying to stop. It’s really difficult. My father and my brother, my only sibling, they both died unexpectedly in the last year. My only good friends drink every single day, so I feel like I simply cannot hangout with them anymore if I want to stop. And I do. I hate alcohol. I don’t crave it unless I’m with people who are drinking. I can deal with the sadness without it. I just wanted to express that. I love you guys and wish the best for every one of you.
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It sounds like you really need some sober support. We can encourage you and give you some direction, but that can only get you so far. 12 step meetings are everywhere and can be the lifeline you need.
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I feel this post 100% because I’m also trying to stop but it’s not the alcohol but the feeling you get from it. All my family gatherings there are drugs and alcohol and even though I never did drugs I drunk alcohol so I can feel included 
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Haven’t opened this app in 2 months. Thank you for the reply.
Thank you and I understand. The people you are around is a huge factor.
I'm sorry for your losses. I can relate to that feeling of having friends that most of them drink. Cookouts, birthdays, camping trips... I've gone through phases where I just don't drink and I don't understand why people question that your not drinking. It almost makes some people feel uncomfortable. You have to do what's best for you.