I just lost someone to suicide. I have 7 months clean and I'm just not sure how to even feel
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I’m sorry to hear that, my prayers are with you. Loss is never easy so give yourself grace as you work through your grief and allow yourself to feel all of the emotions. Lean on any support systems you have and remind yourself daily of the work you’ve put in for 7 months of sobriety. 
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I’m sorry to hear about your loss I too have lost someone in the last month but it was do to cancer the thing that I have to remind myself constantly is that honoring them by continuing to be the best version of myself that I possibly can would be the best possible way I can honor them because that’s what they would want me to do.so continue with what you are doing reach out and talk through it.my prayers go out to you and your family.
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Grieving is tough but necessary
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My deepest condolences to you. It's so unfair to lose someone so sudden. I echo a comment above about honoring them by being your best self. I'll also say it's ok if you're angry feel it and work through it. Another thing is that your loved ones' suffering is over. We truly do not know the battles everyone faces.
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Im so so sorry about this . We lost my aunt to suicide in my 20s . There's no easy answer to it and it's almost impossible to see coming . My thoughts and prayers r with you . But u relating tht to us is important ... not talking about it just keeps the pain inside . We're here to talk if u need it . Peace
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Emotionally it messes u up please take comfort in the fact that this was there choice as crappy as this makes u feel God will get u through. If they were saved rejoice for they are with the Lord
Prays for healing and the strength to hold onto your sobriety
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Pray for their family. Everyone doesn’t get to have sobriety. You have to want it more than your need to use it sorry for your loss and be grateful you’re here and it wasn’t you.