I’m headed to AA for the Alcothon, I think I’ve lost my wife. We’re separated and living in the same home. I don’t know where she’ll be or who she’ll be with. I’m trying to grab and hold on to serenity.
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Sounds really hard. Is there anyone you could stay with? I hope you do what you need to do for your happiness. 
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Well done continuing working on your program despite what you're going thru.
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Have been going through the same exact thing. However he was toxic to my sobriety and I just couldn’t remain sober being in the same house. Staying with family now and it is so much better. And no matter who stays or goes you don’t pick up.
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Joe I lost my wife 13 months ago and engaged a grief counselor but I also recommend one book How to Survive the Loss of a Love. Best book most often suggested by therapists. There are others but I used this before and trust it completely!
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Keep coming back it’s a crazy time and grief is the flip side of love and healing. It’s a process not instant karma but it will on average require a year and a half if you’ve been together for any length of time as a couple. You have my full support and you will learn and grow but it’s not easy to do alone. May God bless you my good man!
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