I’m here because I was sober for almost 4 years. And about 3.5 years ago me and my daughters mother split in a most terrible fashion (we get along and co parent wonderfully now) but I’ve found me at an impasse with myself. I’m just done with the carousel. Sobriety was always easy when I had someone to be accountable to, but having dedicated myself to being single so that I could be a better spouse, it’s been hard to be accountable to myself. So here I am. Thanks for your time and I’m glad to speak to or help someone in any way I can.
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Daniel I know exactly how you feel. My ex girlfriend and I were together for 4 years and engaged a year and she broke up with me this year. It's been super difficult with the holidays being alone and sober. I can't relate to having kids even though I want them but just take it one day at a time. That's what everyone tells me. I got to see my nephew and reconnect with my sister in law who I used to be close with. Reach out to me I am very active especially since I'm with family until tomorrow and this app is my outlet.
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Maybe finding a really good sober squad would help. Are you involved in AA or any other local sober community ?
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I’m here to talk whenever you need to
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Yeah I’m in the process of reintegrating myself. I am steady in knowing what I intend to accomplish, I’m just going one day at a time.
I appreciate that very much! Thank you!