I’m no longer on drugs but one sided relationships are

I’m no longer on drugs but one sided relationships are the same for me
I now find myself just as broke and alone because I give beyond my means and it is never reciprocated
Now I can’t fix my car and he is living his life still in my place just not financially contributing and driving my car even though it should be parked
WHY CANT I STOP DOING THIS TO MYSELF

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Self sabotage becomes comfortable. You are worthy for better

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Maybe it's time for a new circle. When I think back on my past bad decisions thru a clear head I'm shocked at the depth I allowed myself to be mistreated simply because I was scared to be alone. Does he encourage your recovery, support you and carry his weight? If not ...

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That’s the problem everything was sooo good we knew each other 25 years ago he came back into my life in all the right ways God first I moved to another city found a church involved with his family
Now he’s different no passion or time for us, me this is new behavior for me I m doing everything differently
His words don’t match his actions

I know you’re right
He is the only one in my circle don’t know anyone but him and his family

Hey I know a little bit about cars. Unless you already have help. And

He I’m assuming your partner?

If he’s not adding positive value in your life drop that chicken dinner