For me; I see a lot of underlying Buddhism in AA. “God” I believe was used loosely back in the beginning because as a whole it was what American’s related to. Most people I know speak of AA as a spiritual program not religious
GOD, I’ve heard a few acronyms group of drunks is one that makes me smile but rings true … we can not do this without each other, accountable and serving one another
Buddhism, the removal of self
Some of what you said feels like you could use to differentiate accountability for yourself and control!
Buddhism is an ideology may help to look in that direction 

