I’m struggling with a current break up. Well not current.. it’s been a while actually and I’m still struggling with it. She is over it. I have a daughter with her and I’m just really lost without being part of the family unit that is now disrupted. Or Im outcasted from. We’re still good friends. I’ve stopped seeing her and all we do is talk now. No actual contact lately. And I’m still not over it. And now I’ve been catching myself wanting to turn to getting high. I do get through it but they do come
Often, the cravings. And I always want to just get a case of the f*** it’s and say f*** it but I know that won’t get me anywhere either. It’s just hard. I’ve been clean for 1 year 4 months and 5 days today! And I would hate to turn that into 0 days by 1 bad moment. Anyways thanks for reading and advice would be great!
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Hey man, hang in there. Remember we can’t control the ones we love, but we can be there for them. “ there are many bumps in the road. Are you going to let those bumps in the road destroy your journey?” I believe in you!
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My wife and I separated recently because of my drinking and she and the kids were gone for a few months. It absolutely killed me but I realized I needed the solitude to work on myself. Since I’ve been working so hard on myself my family has noticed and they are coming back around. It just takes time sometimes but if she doesn’t come back don’t give up because YOU deserve recovery!
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