I’m struggling with the untimely loss of my nephew, who

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I'm struggling with the untimely loss of my nephew, who was 23 years old.

He passed two days after his 23rd birthday.

My name is Emilio, and I am an alcoholic/addict.

I also have mental health issues and have been diabetic since October 1, 2010.

As the details of his overdose are slowly being revealed, naturally, there are many questions left unanswered.

My sobriety date is April 5, 2021.

Through the fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous and my primary care physician, psychologist, psychiatrist, therapist, and substance-abuse counselor, I will get through this because I am building a solid foundation with God, my higher power, the creative spirit of the universe.

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#2

Thank you for letting me share. :pray:t4:

#3

Very sorry for your loss. Just stay strong. I am happy you have a support team. You will get through this. :heart::heart::pray::pray::pray:

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#4

Thank you. Your reply means a lot to me. ❤‍🩹:pray:t4::call_me_hand:t4:

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#5

You got this! One foot in front of the other. Last week I lost a friend that died from the complications of his constant drinking. This one hurt different. That exactly where I was head prior to 6/8/21. Keep your head help high and stay strong.

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#6

Chris, thank you. Wow, 6/8/21, was my actual birthday, I’ll be 55 this year…mind blown. :call_me_hand:t4::pray:t4::four_leaf_clover:

#7

That’s pretty cool.

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#8

So sad to read about your loss. Stick like glue to program meetings and friends. Speak in meetings. We all have loss. You’re sharing helps others :two_hearts:

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#9

Very sorry for your loss Emile! It's good to hear you have the tools and strength to get thru this

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#10

Yes, :pray:t4: thank you. You’re right!

#11

Thank you, Bob. The ability to view tragedy, as a blessing, is something I never imagined I would ever do. :pray:t4:

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#12

My condolences

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#13

Sorry for your loss

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#14

Fortunately I haven't lost anyone since I sobered up, but I'm impressed by how well I've seen people that are pretty solid in their recovery handle the loss of loved ones. It kinda reassures me that I'll be able to do the same

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#15

This warms my heart. I’m impressed you feel I’m handling this well. :joy:. But, I’m not done yet! We must keep calm and carry on! Share our strength, Hope and courage so WE can help others on their path to serenity. ❤‍🩹:pray:t4:

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#16

Congratulations on opening up and staying sober through a difficult situation.

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#18

This makes me happy. :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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Welcome Emile Yeo, I know the pain of loss like that. I lost my older brother a little over a year ago and several friends in the rooms in my almost five years of recovery. The guilt of not being there to save my brother was very hard, but I was able to find closure after being reminded I couldn’t save someone who didn’t want to be saved. I, instead chose to strengthen my bond with my nephews and be there even more for them. I didn’t drink or use through any of it, and that was a blessing. There is support on these apps and in meetings and the fellowship. Thank you for sharing, believe it or not you helped me today. God bless :pray:t4:

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#20

Great mindset!! Best of luck to you n your recovery.

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#21

I love this. You’re right. Thank you, Jason. ❤️‍🩹🙏🏽