A different AA group, smart recovery, a gym group, a cooking class, volunteering, meetup. Sober people are out there. It just takes time to rebuild that foundation.
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I didnât see this. Itâs sort of the same but itâs more informal. I like them better.
I agree with you AA groups sometimes just donât work. I developed a couple of hobbies, one was going to the gym more often. The other was working a animal shelter to walk dogs etc. Doing both has changed my life in a way that I donât need drugs or drinks to get out of being bored with life
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It took me 7 years to get a sponsor. Take your time. Slowbriety!
Quite often, like high school, itâs very clicky. Also, Iâve found that many, once theyâve tasted the power that soberity gives, an attitude of judging develops, brow beating and criticism happens. You simply just need to be patient and youâll find your peeps.