How do i find a sponsor? Every meeting i have gone to so far, nobody wants to be a sponsor. Im feeling like giving up at this point.
At some of the meetings in the Low Country (South Carolina) there is a moment where it is asked if someone is able to be a sponsor or find a sponsor, they are asked to raise their hand.
At other meetings im Vegas and northern Illinois, it is suggested to find someone that has what you want, and she is to be approached and asked. Knowing that someone has what you want is typically found in their share.
It has been my experience people with amazing recovery, peace and serenity are ready to be of service and work with someone to go through the 12 Steps. I don't know of anyone that has amazing long term sobriety, off the relapse train, and has had the ith Step Promises come true that hasn't been sponsored. It's in the Book, and part of the story we need community. It's part of my story.
Perhaps if you post the City, State/Province someone here can point you somewhere, filling and/or help.
I can be a temporary sponsor until you find a woman closer to you.