I need help 
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Detox, Rehab, long term facility, the. Sober living. In the meantime also going to AA, NA meetings. Work the steps, get a sponsor, do the work. It works if you work it. PS: Therapy and a psychiatrist. If needed MAT therapy. Worked for me. No one can hold your hand and do it for you you also have to want it. Best wishes
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What can I help you with?
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Thank you, and apologies I guess the app doesn’t refresh quickly? I had no idea someone actually responded and I totally lashed out unwarranted. I just need support. Someone to tell me no. I have a guy who no matter how many times I beg him to not he keeps bringing home booze. EVERY DAY
Get rid of the 'guy' and his booze. You need to set boundaries.
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I know you’re right but unfortunately easier said than done. The situation is complicated, and I’ve tried setting many different boundaries. …And again I’m making excuses.
I know I need to get rid of the guy. I was fine for 7 years before him. He’s great, but his alcohol problem is f-ed. And I guess I no longer have the willpower. My days are stressful and he comes home with booze. He says “you could just not have any” …um, so why does he buy the kind I like? 
He’s so addicted to booze he’d rather sacrifice my health instead of stopping. And I’ve just about given up
And this is after he pinned me to a dryer and hit me in the head and face because I broke his precious big tv, then pushed my elderly father down when he tried to defend me. Yes, we were both drinking. Would I have ever broke his tv sober? Nope nope nope. Did I ask for alcohol that day? Another nope. Yet he blames my drinking on what happened that day. I remember hiding from him. …well, for those reading; take note, there’s something to be said for putting thoughts on “paper” I’ve never told anyone any of this cause I have no friends but just typing it is downright cathartic 
Are you in a position to ask him to move out?
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