I need help 
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Detox, Rehab, long term facility, the. Sober living. In the meantime also going to AA, NA meetings. Work the steps, get a sponsor, do the work. It works if you work it. PS: Therapy and a psychiatrist. If needed MAT therapy. Worked for me. No one can hold your hand and do it for you you also have to want it. Best wishes
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Thank you, and apologies I guess the app doesn’t refresh quickly? I had no idea someone actually responded and I totally lashed out unwarranted. I just need support. Someone to tell me no. I have a guy who no matter how many times I beg him to not he keeps bringing home booze. EVERY DAY
Get rid of the 'guy' and his booze. You need to set boundaries.
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I know you’re right but unfortunately easier said than done. The situation is complicated, and I’ve tried setting many different boundaries. …And again I’m making excuses.
I know I need to get rid of the guy. I was fine for 7 years before him. He’s great, but his alcohol problem is f-ed. And I guess I no longer have the willpower. My days are stressful and he comes home with booze. He says “you could just not have any” …um, so why does he buy the kind I like? 
He’s so addicted to booze he’d rather sacrifice my health instead of stopping. And I’ve just about given up
And this is after he pinned me to a dryer and hit me in the head and face because I broke his precious big tv, then pushed my elderly father down when he tried to defend me. Yes, we were both drinking. Would I have ever broke his tv sober? Nope nope nope. Did I ask for alcohol that day? Another nope. Yet he blames my drinking on what happened that day. I remember hiding from him. …well, for those reading; take note, there’s something to be said for putting thoughts on “paper” I’ve never told anyone any of this cause I have no friends but just typing it is downright cathartic 
Are you in a position to ask him to move out?
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I am so sorry that you are going through this. I can't imagine how hard this must be for you. I am sending loving kindness your way. You can get through this. You are stronger than you relise.
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The road is going to a dead end. It’s your choice to keep going to the bitter end or to take the road to recovery which isn’t easy but easier than the bitter dead end. There are places and programs for you and your aging father. You just need to start doing your part.
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Either way, best of wishes to you and your father🙏
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