I need to get a new coin! 😋

Recovery
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For the longest time I had no idea what my sober date was. I have a terrible memory & one night I just decided to dump what I had down the drain. I was going through my Facebook memories 10 days ago & that’s when my date popped up. Today is that day, another milestone reached! I am over the moon excited that I have another year under my belt. That’s another year of experience I can take with me into the field of being a peer recovery supporter. Life might be a bit chaotic being sober, but I love living my life without alcohol numbing me. I like being able to feel everything, the good and the bad. I remember when I was having a hard time getting to a year. I relapsed at 11 months one time thinking I could “celebrate” just one time. I relapsed another time after I hit my year goal, which was a huge disappointment. I haven’t given up though because sobriety has saved my life. If I wasn’t walking on this path, I 100% wouldn’t be here today.

I am not completely sober, call it cali sober or whatever, but the end goal is complete sobriety eventually. Everyone’s journey is different and valid. I fully support utilizing certain substances for medicinal and spiritual purposes; marijuana, mushrooms, etc. Just putting that out there in case there are others like myself who could benefit from having a sober bud like themselves.

I have a secret…I have yet to do my 12 steps…shhh I plan on it, I just haven’t found my community or a sponsor. I still have to step back into rooms more after moving again. That’s one of my goals this year along with developing my own art & recovery community. I’m also close to getting certified as a peer recovery supporter. I really want my career to be sobriety related and help my fellow peers.

How did I do it if I didn’t do the 12 steps yet?

I wish I had some mind blowing secret for this, but I don’t. I’ve just avoided alcohol and I simply have no desire to drink. Sometimes I’ll catch myself looking at some alcohol I use to drink, but I never have wanted any of it.

I’ve learned that patience is key when it comes to sobriety. Having patience with yourself and the process of how your journey unfolds. Be patient when you fall down again, learn from the lesson, and keep on going. ONE DAY AT A TIME, that’s a great reminder to be patient.

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#2

Congrats on not drinking!

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#3

Awesome share Maggie and congrats on abstaining for 4yrs!!!! :raised_hands:

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#4

I'm with you on not having a mind-blowing secret. I have no idea what any of the 12 steps are, or what a big book is. Perhaps they're the same. I haven't been to an AA meeting in more than 5 years. My desire is to live a better life. And that's what I do. I'm not saying my way is best. I'm saying that when you find your path, walk it. Congratulations, it is quite an accomplishment!

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#5

For the longest time I felt like I had to go to meetings and 12 steps until I learned that some people don’t even go through the whole process of A.A. There are many paths to recovery, one isn’t better than the other. What works for one person, might not work for another. :relaxed:

#6

Thank you! :blush:

#7

Thanks! It feels great!

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#8

You got it, you're exactly right. AA is great for some, it was terrible for me. I don't tell anyone what they should do, but everyone should know that there are more ways than one. If it works, it's the right way.

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#9

I like to explore the different paths because I believe there’s always something to learn from them all. :relaxed:

#10

Bravo :clap: Nice post!