It is so incredibly difficult as a 30 year old man who works a blue collar job to find someone worth investing time in. Where do people find love these days???? Online sites where women sell their bodies are a detriment and the degredation to society. It teaches women that men are only good for one thing, money. I find it deplorable and ridiculously disgusting. Im jaded and heavily guarded, my walls are high, and wide. I will not waste my time withtrying ti get to know someone for a week just to be disappointed, betrayed, and hurt time after time. I’ve been stood up, let down, and jerked around side to side. Im losing hope and faith in humanity, and im beginning to think ill be alone forever. I will not settle for less than i deserve, and im extremely picky. Maybe im shooting myself in the foot here, but why settle for someone who doesnt make me truly happy in every aspect of my life??
First, you don't want to need a woman or anyone to make you happy. You should be making yourself happy 
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I understand...I was single for 7 years and got into a relationship with someone and he wasn't heading in the same direction as me so we broke up but invested 2 years and now I'm scared to put myself out there because of how crazy things are now and days. Some people are so deceitful with their intentions. I'm heavily guarded as well.
I not NEED a woman, I WANT a woman. HUGE difference
Levi.... I'm in the same situation as you. I agree with you 
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I’m extremely glad to know I’m not alone, seriously… how do we get all these chicks to stop selling themselves and teaching the next generations that it’s socially acceptable?! I’m going to start acting as though women don’t exist, they don’t deserve my time, they don’t deserve my attention, they don’t deserve my affection, they don’t deserve my generosity,
They don’t deserve my gratitude,
They don’t deserve any of it. 
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