I seriously think we should ban anyone who ignores profiles

I seriously think we should ban anyone who ignores profiles and seems just to be here for that horizontal thing or some bs romance. I'm starting to get pretty ticked.

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Agreed :+1:

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I agree too. Im here for support and to give support for sobriety and that is the only reason.

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Just imagine the ones that are pretending to be here for support as a disguise. Might be best the ones looking just out themselves so we dont have to guess who is honest

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Yeah, I get random friend requests all the time. They’re pretty easy to spot for me now

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Yeah. It disgusts me. Praying on loneliness, self worth issues and a population with very little practice at making good decisions. It should be exposed for what it is. Criminal exploitation and manipulation. I almost left this resource because of this. I hate for them to win though. I’m encouraged to read that others are concerned about it also.

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I agree with ALL of the above.

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Amen to that! I've gotten to the point where I just read the sober tip of the day and like a few posts then move on

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I try to have compassion for sick or lonely people. Not always easy but helps me not feel disgusted or irritated.

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I agree and the fakes using this sober site/app for relationships while a bunch of us are on here for support,to vent and to have sober friends

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Agree I’ve been played

That’s how I felt at AA meetings

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I didn’t realize that’s what some people used this app for and I highly considered deleting it because of that. I’ll stick it out a bit longer but sucked figuring that one out. And the old school habits in me always think there’s under covers on here out to get me which I know is insane and I have nothing to hide anymore but boy it’s just something that’s hard to shake :joy:

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I've only joined a few days ago and have had 20 friend requests. And countless messages from fake accounts. It's frustrating. But I'm learning how to weed them out and I'm starting to recognize who's real.

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Hi, how are you? I really liked your comment and your profile. I’d love to get to know you and see where things go. Feel free to send me a friend request so we can chat

Hi, how are you? I really liked your comment and your profile. I’d love to get to know you and see where things go. Feel free to send me a friend request so we can chat!.

Hi, how are you? I really liked your comment and your profile. I’d love to get to know you and see where things go. Feel free to send me a friend request so we can chat.

It pisses me off too because I'm here for my sobriety

You are a bot

i could agree but there are new people like me who just found this plate form and seriously am interested in my sobriety