I stole it

I stole $80 from my boyfriend and now he text messaged me someone must have broke into our house and stole money out of my pocket what should I do?

Give it back and apologize.

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Yeah I’d suggest just fess up.

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Put together a good apology and make sure not to do it again. I mean, he probably has a pretty good idea no one broke into the house to look through pants pockets.

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Yeah he already knows. He’s giving you a chance to come clean.

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We never can outrun our lies. They always catch up to us. Time to fess up before it goes sideways anymore than it already has.

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You can definitely never outrun your self and the fact that you posted here says you feel bad about it. Replace it. Wr9te him a note confessing. We often underestimate the power of the written word. The beauty is, it has to be absorbed before it can be responded to. Write a note apologizing, put the money there, or wherever, and then sit down and take whatever comes next. If you stole it to feed your addiction that is something that also needs to be discussed because it will come to light and the sooner the better.

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None of us know what kind of bf she has. What if he's a monster?

Return the money and apologize for taking it.

What if the sky falls?

What if you wake up smart tomorrow?

Oooh burrrnnnn. Hahaha. Im kidding man.

I was just thinking, we don't know her bf and what could transpire if we give her false hope that being honest in this situation would be best. What if he loses his mind and does something awful?

I'm cautious about giving advice to women regarding relationship type stuff because 1. I have no idea what she's dealing with and 2. I'm not a woman.

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:smiling_face_with_three_hearts::ok_hand:

Taylor has some good thoughts; are you safe to begin with?

He’s not too scary to rob.
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What this guy says. Unless the BF is a total moron that thinks burglars break into homes just to rummage through people's pants.
Sounds like his way of hoping you confess.

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Lol

That'd be a nice change of pace, but I don't believe in miracles.

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Why did you steal it?

Deny till you die :sweat_smile: just kidding! For me, dishonesty in any form will allow me to be dishonest with myself. Then I will certainly drink and drug again and again.
You gotta ask yourself if ur willing to go to any lengths to stay sober.
If your bf is a violent guy, then leave him a letter. If he’s forgiving, have a heart to heart. Good luck and stop stealing!!!,

Hahaha man, I was sincerely just kidding

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