I think about all the things that happened over the

I think about all the things that happened over the years and get all worked up about it. Trying to figure it out and why. Taking accountability is one of the hardest thing a person has to do to feel better and really brings waves of emotion

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Taking accountability is super important. To me, it feels adjacent to Step 5 and admitting the exact nature of our wrongdoings.
However, its also important to be able to say, “im not that person anymore.” And move forward.
We can be accountable for our past without letting it define us and control our future.

I agree and I have no problem saying what I did , I do have a problem with justifying it though . Blaming my reaction towards treatment I received . Its taken me a long time to figure this out. Ya this person was horrible towards me but I still need to be accountable for how I reacted to it . I need to set boundaries and stick to them . Its hard

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