I was taught early on that if you do a 12 step program there are ways they work for him or her or them and the other ones.
Yet for me I tried a few ways.
The philosophy I was taught which was given to me was simple.
If you have a garden with three plants… here is their outcomes.
1.) if you plant the seed and do nothing with it. Then nothing will change if nothing changes.
2.) you can have a flower bloom over night and be beautiful and many come to see it’s elegance. It’s bright and fiery and is in everyone’s awe. It though is light.
3.) ugly and yellow sprouts and the world sees how pitiful broken and despair riddles this little plant. Smells weird looks like nothing and will become nothing.
Over time there is water given. Sunlight is needed. Care is wanted and willing to grow with time patience and thoroughness.
One day it to shall bloom and be immaculate and beyond the beauty of what was.
Let me ask you..?
Which one has the deeper roots to wither the storm?