I’ve been trying to stop drinking for about 18 years and I fail every time. I’ve been to about 15 AA houses across the world and moved so many times. I would just like to talk to some sober people that could possibly help.
Have you been to an AA meeting where you are currently located? If so, how often? Made any sober connections?
I haven’t. I don’t like talking to a bunch of random people “in person”. I don’t have very many friends and the ones I do have all drink. I go on random dates but when I do I usually end up drinking to open up more I suppose. I don’t have any family here either which stinks.
You gotta start going man. You have to start doing sh7t you don't wanna do. It sucks, trust me I get it. Embrace the suck. That's the only way you're gonna stop being a drunken jacka$$. I have said it in here many times, and I am only just under 7, months sober, but I am a 100% atheist. I have embraced the suck, and things are sucking much less. Just get in there, and go talk to a bunch of crusty old bãstards, drink some subpar coffee, and see what happens.
I feel ya. I have no family either or friends because they all drink.
I know it’s hard, but meetings are your best friend right now. Whether aa or na, that’s the best thing man. You can do it.
It’s impossible for me. My mother called me today wanting to live with me. I can’t accept that. Thank you for trying to help but I have to accept help.